I finally understood what people meant when they said that marriage takes work. Well, at least I got a glimpse of what it meant. I was starting to feel really distant from R.J. the past few weeks, mainly because I hadn't spent time with him. We were always both doing something either at church, for a wedding, or meeting with someone and it was starting to wear on me. Then I realized this is how marriages start to get distant. Both people work full time so they hardly see each other and I'm sure if you have kids It's even worse.
I realized that we must be intentional in our marriage, It's not enough to live together. We must actively work at it. I have to continue to learn about my husband and love him. It's exciting to see if God wills it where we will be 30 years from now.
P.S. Sorry for the random straw but I just got them in the mail and I think they're adorable. Almost too cute to drink out of.